I love him, but so many things get in the way of a good relationship? (repost in LGBT section)?

Talk to your boyfriend about this friend and tell him how it makes you feel. If he knew that you are uncomfortable with the way she treats you, he would probably talk to her about it or distance himself from her. There is nothing you can do about his family, but you could consider getting a bus p or a bike (if he lives close enough) to make seeing him easier. Your uality also doesn't need to become known to admit that he is your boyfriend. Your current relationship is heteroual in nature and has nothing to do with panuality, and you mentioned nothing of your boyfriend liking other males or his uality at all, so I am uming he is a heteroual transual.